im having issues with gluten not responding to a handshake, i tried to update the server list and change my settings to be less strict but nothing seems to work

[trevornourie]

2025-11-17T02:01:06-05:00 INFO [openvpn] TLS Error: TLS handshake failed

2025-11-17T02:01:06-05:00 INFO [openvpn] SIGTERM received, sending exit notification to peer

2025-11-17T02:01:06-05:00 INFO [openvpn] SIGTERM[soft,tls-error] received, process exiting

2025-11-17T02:01:06-05:00 INFO [vpn] retrying in 15s

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [firewall] allowing VPN connection...

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [openvpn] OpenVPN 2.6.14 x86_64-alpine-linux-musl [SSL (OpenSSL)] [LZO] [LZ4] [EPOLL] [MH/PKTINFO] [AEAD]

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [openvpn] library versions: OpenSSL 3.5.4 30 Sep 2025, LZO 2.10

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [openvpn] TCP/UDP: Preserving recently used remote address: [AF_INET]216.177.135.133:1195

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [openvpn] UDPv4 link local: (not bound)

2025-11-17T02:01:21-05:00 INFO [openvpn] UDPv4 link remote: [AF_INET]216.177.135.133:1195

2025-11-17T02:02:21-05:00 WARN [openvpn] TLS Error: TLS key negotiation failed to occur within 60 seconds (check your network connectivity)

here are my settings that i can share
COMPOSE_PROJECT_NAME=mediastack
DOCKER_SUBNET=172.28.10.0/24
DOCKER_GATEWAY=172.28.10.1
LOCAL_SUBNET=192.168.1.0/24 # This is the IP Subnet used on your home network
LOCAL_DOCKER_IP=192.168.1.10 # This is the IP Address of your Docker computer
TP_THEME=nord
PLEX_CLAIM=
FOLDER_FOR_MEDIA=/mnt/storage/Media/media # <-- Update for your folders - Synology Example: /volume1/docker/appdata
FOLDER_FOR_DATA=/mnt/storage/Media/data # <-- Update for your folders - Synology Example: /volume1/media
PUID=1000
PGID=1000
UMASK=0002
TIMEZONE=America/New_York
VPN_TYPE=openvpn
VPN_SERVICE_PROVIDER=expressvpn
VPN_USERNAME=blocked
VPN_PASSWORD=blocked
SERVER_COUNTRIES=USA
SERVER_REGIONS=
SERVER_CITIES=
SERVER_HOSTNAMES=
SERVER_CATEGORIES=
OPENVPN_CUSTOM_CONFIG=
GLUETUN_CONTROL_PORT=8320
VPN_ENDPOINT_IP=
VPN_ENDPOINT_PORT=
WIREGUARD_PUBLIC_KEY=
WIREGUARD_PRIVATE_KEY=
WIREGUARD_PRESHARED_KEY=
WIREGUARD_ADDRESSES=
QBIT_PORT=6881
FLARESOLVERR_PORT=8191
TDARR_SERVER_PORT=8266
WEBUI_PORT_TDARR=8265
WEBUI_PORT_BAZARR=6767
WEBUI_PORT_DDNS_UPDATER=8310
WEBUI_PORT_FILEBOT=5454
WEBUI_PORT_HEIMDALL=2080
WEBUI_PORT_HOMARR=3200
WEBUI_PORT_HOMEPAGE=3000
WEBUI_PORT_JELLYFIN=8096
WEBUI_PORT_JELLYSEERR=5055
WEBUI_PORT_LIDARR=8686
WEBUI_PORT_MYLAR=8090
WEBUI_PORT_PLEX=32400
WEBUI_PORT_PORTAINER=9000
WEBUI_PORT_PROWLARR=9696
WEBUI_PORT_QBITTORRENT=8200
WEBUI_PORT_RADARR=7878
WEBUI_PORT_READARR=8787
WEBUI_PORT_SONARR=8989
WEBUI_PORT_SABNZBD=8100
WEBUI_PORT_WHISPARR=6969
REVERSE_PROXY_PORT_HTTP=80
REVERSE_PROXY_PORT_HTTPS=443
DOMAINNAME=
SUBDOMAINS=wildcard
VALIDATION=dns
DNSPLUGIN=cloudflare
CERTPROVIDER=letsencrypt
PROPAGATION=
DUCKDNSTOKEN=
EMAIL=
ONLY_SUBDOMAINS=false
EXTRA_DOMAINS=
STAGING=false
CF_ZONE_ID=
CF_ACCOUNT_ID=
CF_API_TOKEN=
CF_TUNNEL_NAME=
CF_TUNNEL_TOKEN=

did i do something wrong nothing i do seems to work